March 20, 2025

Ep 11: Decluttering & the "Messessary Middle"

Ep 11: Decluttering & the

🎙️ The JJs Declutter Podcast: 

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Episode Summary

Decluttering can sometimes feel like a bomb went off in your home, but that messy middle stage—what we call the “Messessary Middle”—is actually proof of progress! In this episode, Janis and Julie break down why this phase is essential and how to move through it without feeling overwhelmed.

You’ll learn practical strategies for managing the chaos, staying on track, and avoiding rebound clutter so your space stays organized long-term.

Key Takeaways & Timestamps

[00:00:50] What is the “Messessary Middle”?

  • The unavoidable messy phase of decluttering
  • Why it’s a sign of progress, not failure

[00:01:22] The Three Phases of Decluttering

  1. Planning – Setting up your goals & gathering supplies
  2. Messessary Middle – Sorting through items, making decisions
  3. Completion – Restoring order & enjoying your clutter-free space

[00:03:45] The Rolling Sort Method

  • Avoid feeling overwhelmed by tackling small sections at a time
  • How to declutter in short bursts while maintaining progress

[00:05:16] The KEEP or LETS GO Method

  • Keep (stays in the area)
  • LE (Lives Elsewhere – needs to be relocated)
  • Trash (discard immediately)
  • Sentimental (store for later review)
  • GO (donate, sell, return)

[00:07:24] How to Prevent Re-Cluttering

  • Store like-with-like and use labeled containers
  • Periodically revisit decluttered spaces to ensure they stay organized

[00:10:06] Using Reminders for Items You’re Not Ready to Let Go

  • Set a deadline (e.g., 60 days) to reassess sentimental or uncertain items
  • Use a calendar reminder to revisit decisions later

Resources & Links

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Call to Action

👉 Decluttering Challenge: Pick one small space today—a drawer, a shelf, or a pile of papers—and start sorting. Remember, the mess is temporary!

💬 Comment below with your biggest decluttering struggle, and let’s tackle it together!

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Keep it Simple. Keep it Intentional. Keep Decluttering!